A Little Bit About Me
Are you looking for a practicing wife who is loving and caring? I may be the one...
My greatest blessing is to be a Muslim. I will strive to be a good and loyal Muslim wife, standing beside my husband, caring for him and looking after him. I wish for both us to strive to be good Muslims and enter jannah together.
I was brought up by parents who loved each other and were happily married.
This is my blue print for my marriage relationship .
Allah has provided us guidance on how to live a beautiful and productive life through Quran and sunnah and without it we'd be lost.
I am not perfect but strive to follow Islam and better myself.
I would love to have a deep and intimate connection with my husband on all levels- respect, spiritual ,emotional, intellectual and intimate.
And I am looking for someone that wishes the same.
I like to watch documentaries, podcasts , listening to the tafseer of the Quran.
For leisure I can watch a movie but my free time is mostly spent outdoors.
I will put my housework aside if the day is beautiful and will go out.
I give relationships and mental health a priority . I love nature, travelling , nice food.
Life is challenging. Allah SWT tests everyone and my test was to go through a divorce. Alhamdullillah I was blessed with two children who live with me.
Thank you for reading my profile and may Allah SWT bless you with good health, eemaan and a righteous spouse.
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What I Am Looking For
I am looking for love and connection (spiritual ,emotional, intellectual and intimate). These lyrics explain it very well:
It's amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word, you can light up the dark
The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me wherever I fall
All day long, I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near you drown out the crowd
Try as they may, they can never define
What's being said between your heart and mine.
It's a blessing to be loved for who you are.
No one is perfect and there is no perfect match. But people can make it perfect for each other if they work on their relationship.
There's a belief that you can find a soulmate. People can connect in the beginning but you have to continuously invest in your relationship for it to blossom.
You can get an education to get a job, but no one thinks of educating themselves on how to make a relationship work.
It is a relationship with give and take, a compromise.
There has to be respect, trust, honesty, compassion, understanding and care for each other.
One has to be willing to apologize, correct their mistakes , work on their character and not to do things that hurt your spouse.
If you drink alcohol, smoke, do drugs, want to have sex before marriage, have girlfriends , going clubs or addicted to porn- we won't match.
I'm not judging, I just want a husband who doesn't do that, because I don't.
I want a husband who prays 5 times a day, earns a halal living, fasts during Ramadan, pay zakat, read Quran- just do the basics of a Muslim. Is that too much to ask for?
Here's what I wish for you:
I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance...
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance,
Living' might mean taking' chances, but they're worth taking',
Loving' might be a mistake, but it's worth making',
Don't let some Hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to selling' out - reconsider
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance...
Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along,
Tell me who wants to look back on their years
And wonder where those years have gone.
May Allah SWA bless everyone with the best spouse.
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